Let’s talk openly — about something more and more men are curious about but still too many are afraid to say out loud:

pegging

As a Dominatrix, I’ve pegged more men than I can count. Many of my clients come to me because it’s something they’ve fantasized about for years — but never felt they could safely or comfortably explore with their wives or partners. Some have partners who aren’t open to it, others are too nervous to even ask. But once they finally experience it, most say the same thing:
“Why didn’t I do this sooner?”

There’s still so much unnecessary stigma and misinformation surrounding pegging — and I want to break that down, from both a professional and personal point of view.

First: What Is Pegging?

In simple terms, pegging is when a woman uses a strap-on to penetrate a man anally. But that barely scratches the surface of what pegging truly offers.

Pegging can be:

Deeply pleasurable

Intensely intimate

Emotionally bonding

Sexually empowering

A powerful act of trust and connection

It is NOT automatically humiliating, degrading, or emasculating — unless that’s what both partners want. In fact, for many couples, pegging becomes one of the most erotic, connected, and passionate experiences they share.

Your Body Was Designed For This

The male prostate — often called the P-spot — is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones in the body. Stimulating it through anal penetration can trigger powerful full-body orgasms that feel completely different from traditional ejaculation. Some men even experience hands-free orgasms during pegging — a sensation many describe as almost overwhelming in intensity.

The reality? Many men go through their entire lives never experiencing what their own bodies are capable of, simply because they’re afraid to explore.

Let’s Destroy The Biggest Myth: Anal Play ≠ Gay

One of the biggest barriers men face when it comes to pegging is outdated, toxic thinking. So let’s be crystal clear:

Enjoying anal stimulation doesn’t make you gay.

Pegging with a female partner (or a Dominatrix like me) is not a reflection of your orientation — it’s simply about exploring your own body, your own pleasure, and allowing your partner to share in that experience with you.

This isn't about changing who you are — it's about opening yourself to what your body can feel.

Why More Men Are Secretly Craving It

I hear it constantly from my clients:

"I've fantasized about this for years."

"I'm too scared to ask my wife."

"I don't want to feel ashamed, I just want to experience it."

And let me tell you — once they experience it, most are absolutely blown away. Not just by the physical pleasure, but by how deeply intimate and connected it feels to surrender in that way.

Pegging allows a man to:

Experience incredible physical pleasure

Build deep trust with a partner

Break free of restrictive ideas of what sex should look like

Tap into both dominance and submission, depending on the dynamic

Pegging Doesn’t Have To Be Humiliating — It Can Be Incredibly Hot

While some people enjoy adding elements of humiliation or degradation to pegging (and that can be a very hot dynamic for certain submissives), it absolutely doesn’t have to be that way.

Pegging can be:

Loving

Passionate

Sensual

Slow and intimate

Wild and primal

Or any combination you and your partner desire

It’s about connection. About trust. About sharing something deeply personal.

The Bottom Line: More Men Should Be Doing This

Men: You don’t have to deny yourselves this experience. You don’t have to be afraid of what it means.

Pleasure doesn’t threaten your masculinity. If anything, embracing new forms of pleasure shows confidence, courage, and emotional maturity.

You have one body. One chance to fully explore what you’re capable of feeling. Don’t let fear and outdated thinking rob you of what you're capable of.

Interested in exploring?
If you’re curious, nervous, or simply ready to experience pegging in a safe, controlled, and highly pleasurable environment — I offer private sessions designed to meet you exactly where you are in your journey. No shame. No judgment. Just real, powerful exploration.