There’s head… and then there’s head. That nasty, spit-dripping, toe-curling, brain-melting kind of blowjob that leaves him questioning his life decisions and obsessing over you for weeks.

If you’re ready to upgrade your skills and take your oral artistry from “pretty good” to “holy f*ck,” then these are the must-know techniques. Whether you’re a seasoned slut or just learning how to use that mouth to its full, destructive potential, these tips are your new best friends.

1. The More Spit, the Better

If it’s not messy, it’s not memorable. Spit is your best friend when giving head — it keeps things smooth, wet, and wonderfully filthy. But if you’re not naturally a fountain of saliva, don’t worry. You can hack your mouth.

Here are a few of my secret weapons to kickstart saliva production:

• 🥤 Coca-Cola: The fizz tickles your taste buds and gets those glands going.

• 🍊 Sunny D: Tangy and nostalgic — but also a spit machine.

• 🍬 Sugar-Free Gum: Chew it for 10 minutes before — mint or cinnamon for a bonus sensory experience.

• 💦 Dry Mouth Spray: Yup, it's real. And yes, it works wonders.

Do this prep before your play session and let that mouth turn into a slip-and-slide of pleasure.

2. Gag Like You Mean It

Listen, a little throat drama is a good thing. That intense, top-shelf spit that comes from the gag reflex? That’s the good stuff. Don't be afraid to let yourself drool, choke, and even tear up a little. It’s part of the fantasy.

Pro tip: Control your breath and ease your way into the deeper stuff. Build your tolerance — it’s a skill, not a race.

3. Use Your Hands, Babe

If you’re just using your mouth, you’re leaving money on the table. Your hands are extensions of your magic — use them to twist, stroke, cradle, or grip.

• Mirror your mouth movements with your hand.

• Alternate speeds and direction.

• Add a second hand when it gets extra sloppy — the more chaos, the better.

Sloppy blowjobs are a full-body experience — so let those hands dance.

4. Slow is Sexy

You do not need to go turbo mode from the start. Or ever, really. Some of the best oral is slow, sensual, and dripping with anticipation. Take your time. Explore him. Make it torture — the good kind.

Sloppiness isn’t about speed — it’s about surrender. Let your pace tease, tantalize, and torment.

5. When He Moans “Oh My God” — LOCK IT IN

This is the golden rule. If he says, “That’s it!” or “Oh my God!” or starts twitching like a man possessed — do not switch things up. Keep doing exactly what you’re doing. That’s the spot, the rhythm, the pressure — everything.

Too many people panic and change it up. Don’t. Stay the course and ride it out. This is your moment. Let him fall apart in your mouth.

Remember: this is not about perfection — it’s about power, passion, and being unapologetically messy. There’s a reason he can’t stop thinking about it. There’s a reason he’s texting you three days later with “you up?” vibes.

Lastly…

When it comes to the grand finale, it’s important to remember: don’t stop once he starts cumming. Whether you allow him to finish fully in your mouth or stroke him to completion, the key is to keep going — steady, consistent, and attentive — until every last pulse and twitch is over. Stopping too early can leave him with a ruined orgasm (and girl, that’s such a bitch move). The real art is in following through and letting him fully release, leaving him completely drained, satisfied, and obsessed with your technique.

When you master the art of the blowjob, you’re not just giving him head — you’re rewriting his memory of every blowjob he’s ever had.

Go forth. Gag proud. Drip freely. And make it sloppy.